About Butterfly Soiree
At Butterfly Soiree, we believe a wedding should feel as effortless as it is unforgettable.
Founded by Selina, Butterfly Soiree was created from a passion for transforming meaningful moments into beautifully curated celebrations that feel deeply personal, elegant, and seamlessly executed. With more than 15 years of experience in luxury wedding planning and event coordination, our team specializes in creating elevated experiences for couples who value sophistication, intentional details, and exceptional service.
We understand that planning a wedding is more than organizing timelines and décor selections — it is about creating an experience that reflects your story, your style, and the atmosphere you want your guests to remember long after the celebration ends.
From intimate coastal ceremonies to lavish ballroom receptions, we approach every event with creativity, precision, and a calm, concierge-level planning experience designed to remove stress and allow you to fully enjoy your engagement.
Our Approach: Organization, Creativity, & Flawless Execution.
Luxury is found in the details.
At Butterfly Soiree, we focus on creating weddings that feel refined, seamless, and thoughtfully designed from beginning to end. Every element — from vendor coordination and guest experience to design styling and event flow — is handled with meticulous attention and care.
Our clients trust us not only for our expertise, but because we genuinely listen. We take time to understand your vision, priorities, and personality so your wedding never feels generic or overly scripted. The result is a celebration that feels timeless, elegant, and authentically yours.
Whether you are planning a destination celebration, a sophisticated modern wedding, or a romantic garden soirée, our goal is always the same: to create an unforgettable experience with beauty, intention, and effortless execution.
The Experience We Create for Couples
We take a tailored, client-first approach to planning. Whether you want a luxurious ballroom affair, an intimate outdoor celebration, or a multi-day wedding experience, we meticulously design a seamless and cohesive event that tells your unique story.
From the first consultation to the final send-off, we manage every moving piece—from vendor selection and timeline creation to on-the-day logistics—ensuring that your wedding day flows effortlessly.
Our ultimate goal? To provide you with a wedding day that feels effortless, elegant, and truly unforgettable.
Why Couples Choose Butterfly Soiree
Couples choose Butterfly Soiree because they want more than a planner — they want a trusted partner who can confidently guide every detail while delivering an elevated experience from start to finish.
Our planning process is rooted in:
- personalized collaboration,
- transparent communication,
- refined design direction,
- and flawless coordination on wedding day.
We are known for remaining calm under pressure, solving challenges discreetly, and ensuring every celebration unfolds with grace and precision.
For us, true luxury means allowing our couples to feel fully present in every meaningful moment while we manage everything happening behind the scenes.
Serving San Diego & Destination Weddings
Based in San Diego, Butterfly Soiree proudly serves couples throughout Southern California and destination wedding locations.
We collaborate with trusted venues and talented wedding professionals to deliver celebrations that feel polished, sophisticated, and unforgettable — whether you envision an oceanfront ceremony, luxury resort wedding, elegant estate reception, or modern city celebration.
At Butterfly Soiree, we don’t just plan weddings—we create experiences that you and your guests will cherish forever. Let’s bring your vision to life with elegance, precision, and a touch of magic.
Let’s connect and start planning your dream wedding today!
📍 Based in San Diego | Available for Destination Weddings
Let’s Create Something Beautiful Together
Your wedding deserves thoughtful planning, exceptional attention to detail, and an experience that feels effortless from beginning to end.
At Butterfly Soiree, we are honored to help couples celebrate one of life’s most meaningful moments with elegance, beauty, and intentional design.
We look forward to bringing your vision to life.