Wedding Planner in California Creating Timeless Celebrations with Thoughtful Planning & Elegant Design.

Personalized Wedding Planning, Luxury Wedding Design, Destination Weddings & Day-of Coordination Across San Diego and Southern California.

Seamless Celebrations

Our Performance at Scale

15+

Years Experience

Creating exceptional weddings since 2010.

200+

Luxury Weddings Planned

Successfully planned elegant luxury celebrations.

500+

Trusted Vendor Relationships

Strong network of trusted wedding professionals.

100%

Customized Planning

Every wedding is tailored to your vision.

97%

Couples’ Satisfaction

Consistently exceeding couples' expectations.

We specialize in


high-end, seamless wedding planning for modern couples who want precision, style, and an unforgettable experience.

Your wedding should be a flawless reflection of your style, personality, and vision—and at Butterfly Soiree, we make sure every detail is perfectly executed.

Whether you need a full-service planner, an expert to refine the details, or a trusted coordinator to bring it all together, we ensure your wedding day is stress-free, sophisticated, and beautifully curated.


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Wedding Planning Services Designed Around You

No matter where you are in your planning journey, you'll find the right level of support to help you plan with confidence and enjoy every moment along the way.

Feeling Overwhelmed by Wedding Planning?

Full-Service Wedding Planning

We'll guide you from your first ideas to your final dance, keeping every detail organized so you can enjoy your engagement.

  • Personalized planning roadmap
  • Budget & vendor management
  • Wedding day coordination

Dreaming of a Luxury Celebration?

Luxury Wedding Planning

We'll curate every detail with thoughtful planning, elevated design, and flawless execution to create an unforgettable guest experience.

  • Bespoke professional wedding design
  • Premium vendor management
  • Multi-day celebrations

Planning Your Wedding from Out of Town?

Destination Wedding Planning

We'll manage the logistics, vendors, and planning details so you can focus on the excitement of saying "I do."

  • Venue & vendor coordination
  • Guest travel guidance
  • Stress-free planning support

Already Planned Everything?

Day-of Wedding Coordination

We'll take over the timeline, coordinate vendors, and handle the behind-the-scenes details so your day unfolds seamlessly.

  • Timeline management
  • Vendor coordination
  • Behind-the-scenes event oversight

Which Wedding Planning Service Is Right for You?

If you...

Recommended Service

Want complete planning from start to finish

Full-Service Wedding Planning

Are planning a sophisticated, high-end celebration

Luxury Wedding Planning

Need help creating a cohesive wedding aesthetic

Wedding Design & Styling

Are planning a wedding away from home

Destination Wedding Planning

Have planned everything but need professional event management

Day-of Wedding Coordination

No matter where you are in your planning journey, we'll help you choose the level of support that best fits your needs.

Timeless Moments


A glimpse into the unforgettable weddings we've planned, designed, and coordinated across San Diego and Southern California.

Luxury Ballrooms • Estate Weddings • Garden Ceremonies • Coastal Celebrations • Floral Design • Reception Styling

Why Couples Trust Butterfly Soiree for Their Wedding


Planning a wedding is one of life's biggest investments, and choosing the right planner can make all the difference. Couples choose Butterfly Soiree because they want more than a checklist—they want an experienced partner who can simplify the planning process while bringing their vision to life with confidence and creativity.

Personalized Planning

Every wedding is thoughtfully tailored to your vision, style, traditions, and priorities for a celebration that feels uniquely yours.

Timeless Wedding Design

Elegant styling, curated décor, and meaningful details come together to create a wedding that's beautiful today and unforgettable for years to come.

Trusted Local Vendors

Work with San Diego's trusted venues and wedding professionals through our carefully built network of reliable vendor partners.

Stress-Free Coordination

We manage timelines, logistics, and vendor communication so you can enjoy every moment without worrying about the details.

Begin Your Wedding Journey with Confidence

The best celebrations begin with thoughtful planning and trusted guidance.

Whether you're just starting your search or already have your venue secured, we'd love to learn more about your wedding goals, answer your questions, and create a clear roadmap for the celebration you've always imagined.

What It's Like to Work With Butterfly Soiree


Planning your wedding should be one of the most exciting seasons of your life—not the most stressful. Our proven planning process is designed to keep everything organized, transparent, and enjoyable, so you can focus on celebrating your engagement while we take care of the details.

Every unforgettable wedding starts with a conversation. We'll get to know you, your story, your style, your priorities, and what matters most for your celebration. Whether you have every detail planned or you're just getting started, we'll help you define a clear direction and recommend the planning service that's right for you.
What you gain: A personalized plan, expert guidance, and confidence from day one
With your vision in place, we'll create a customized planning roadmap tailored to your wedding. From budgeting and venue selection to vendor recommendations, planning milestones, and key deadlines, every detail is thoughtfully organized to keep the process on track.
The Result: A clear timeline, less stress, and a structured plan that keeps everything moving forward.
This is where your ideas begin to come to life. Together, we'll refine your wedding design, coordinate with trusted vendors, and thoughtfully plan every element—from the ceremony and reception layout to florals, décor, lighting, and guest experience. Every decision is made with intention to create a celebration that feels authentically yours.
The Experience: A beautifully cohesive wedding that reflects your personality and vision.
As your wedding day approaches, we confirm timelines, communicate with every vendor, review logistics, and prepare for every detail behind the scenes. Our proactive approach helps prevent last-minute surprises, so you can look forward to your celebration with complete peace of mind.
Your Peace of Mind: Confidence knowing every detail has been carefully planned and professionally managed.

Love Letters

  • “Choosing Butterfly Soiree was the best decision we made for our wedding. Selina’s attention to detail and impeccable coordination ensured that our day flowed seamlessly. We’re left with beautiful memories that will last a lifetime.”
    Seamless Coordination, Unforgettable Memories
  • “Our wedding day was pure magic, all thanks to Selina. She took care of everything with such grace and professionalism, allowing us to fully enjoy every moment of our special day. We couldn’t have asked for more.”
    Magical Moments Woven with Perfection
  • “Selina turned our vision into reality. From the breathtaking decor to the flawless coordination, every detail of our wedding day was perfect. Thank you for making our dreams come true!”
    A Dream Wedding Beyond Compare
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