Wedding Planner in California Creating Timeless Celebrations with Thoughtful Planning & Elegant Design.

Personalized Wedding Planning, Luxury Wedding Design, Destination Weddings & Day-of Coordination Across San Diego and Southern California.

Seamless Celebrations

Our Performance at Scale

15+

Years Experience

Creating exceptional weddings since 2010.

200+

Luxury Weddings Planned

Successfully planned elegant luxury celebrations.

500+

Trusted Vendor Relationships

Strong network of trusted wedding professionals.

100%

Customized Planning

Every wedding is tailored to your vision.

97%

Couples’ Satisfaction

Consistently exceeding couples' expectations.

We specialize in


high-end, seamless wedding planning for modern couples who want precision, style, and an unforgettable experience.

Your wedding should be a flawless reflection of your style, personality, and vision—and at Butterfly Soiree, we make sure every detail is perfectly executed.

Whether you need a full-service planner, an expert to refine the details, or a trusted coordinator to bring it all together, we ensure your wedding day is stress-free, sophisticated, and beautifully curated.


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Wedding Planning Services Designed Around You

No matter where you are in your planning journey, you'll find the right level of support to help you plan with confidence and enjoy every moment along the way.

Feeling Overwhelmed by Wedding Planning?

Full-Service Wedding Planning

We'll guide you from your first ideas to your final dance, keeping every detail organized so you can enjoy your engagement.

  • Personalized planning roadmap
  • Budget & vendor management
  • Wedding day coordination

Dreaming of a Luxury Celebration?

Luxury Wedding Planning

We'll curate every detail with thoughtful planning, elevated design, and flawless execution to create an unforgettable guest experience.

  • Bespoke professional wedding design
  • Premium vendor management
  • Multi-day celebrations

Planning Your Wedding from Out of Town?

Destination Wedding Planning

We'll manage the logistics, vendors, and planning details so you can focus on the excitement of saying "I do."

  • Venue & vendor coordination
  • Guest travel guidance
  • Stress-free planning support

Already Planned Everything?

Day-of Wedding Coordination

We'll take over the timeline, coordinate vendors, and handle the behind-the-scenes details so your day unfolds seamlessly.

  • Timeline management
  • Vendor coordination
  • Behind-the-scenes event oversight

Which Wedding Planning Service Is Right for You?

If you...

Recommended Service

Want complete planning from start to finish

Full-Service Wedding Planning

Are planning a sophisticated, high-end celebration

Luxury Wedding Planning

Need help creating a cohesive wedding aesthetic

Wedding Design & Styling

Are planning a wedding away from home

Destination Wedding Planning

Have planned everything but need professional event management

Day-of Wedding Coordination

No matter where you are in your planning journey, we'll help you choose the level of support that best fits your needs.

Timeless Moments


A glimpse into the unforgettable weddings we've planned, designed, and coordinated across San Diego and Southern California.

Luxury Ballrooms • Estate Weddings • Garden Ceremonies • Coastal Celebrations • Floral Design • Reception Styling

Love Letters

  • “Choosing Butterfly Soiree was the best decision we made for our wedding. Selina’s attention to detail and impeccable coordination ensured that our day flowed seamlessly. We’re left with beautiful memories that will last a lifetime.”
    Seamless Coordination, Unforgettable Memories
  • “Our wedding day was pure magic, all thanks to Selina. She took care of everything with such grace and professionalism, allowing us to fully enjoy every moment of our special day. We couldn’t have asked for more.”
    Magical Moments Woven with Perfection
  • “Selina turned our vision into reality. From the breathtaking decor to the flawless coordination, every detail of our wedding day was perfect. Thank you for making our dreams come true!”
    A Dream Wedding Beyond Compare
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